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Well, I haven’t had a great sex life with my husband in 14 years. He wanted me to be a dominatrix and it was a little too much too soon and I went into a depression and he felt rejected, then he wouldn’t have sex with me because I was too “vanilla” and he had shut his sexual side off. Then I had an affair that caused me a lot of pain because I fell in love. That’s long over and my husband and I went to counseling and my husband said he knew. And my husband used to say things like he was still attracted to me, but just recently he said he doesn’t have much desire anymore. And nothing ever happens. I think we’re together because of financial issues. I used to think we could get back our sexual connection but now I think the wires are permanently crossed, and I feel too young to feel like it’s all over. My sex life is mostly auto-erotic. It seems my husband and I aren’t attracted anymore.
ANYWAY, wondering what’s the wise way to go about finding an affair partner. I don’t want my heart broken again. I have some guys in mind. Do you just ask them? I’m not sure about affair ettiquette. Someone asked me recently and I didn’t want to because I knew his wife. Appreciate any feedback!