Let’s face it. Keeping affairs discreet can be hard at the best of times. Finding an excuse to leave the house or the office to spend time with your lover can be difficult to create on the spot and not accidentally and suspiciously reuse it – alibis are hard to perfect without help. An affair [...]
There are many reasons people have affairs and these extra relationships have their own positive and negative aspects that sometimes make us incredibly happy, make us feel lucky and excited to be involved in them, or nervous, disappointed, ashamed or just straight out annoyed. Remembering that affairs are not like your normal single-person-dating situations, you [...]
Often people have an affair to fill a void in their own marriage or partnership, whether it’s companionship, romance or sex. If the person you’re having an affair with is single, this can be a little more complicated than just a bit of innocent fun on the side. Quite often, the single person in the [...]
Make the End Clear When you tell your lover that you want to end your relationship, you need to be clear about it. This includes not dillydallying around with “maybe we could spend a little less time together” because this will most likely not be interpreted how you want. You may need to reiterate “I [...]
Before you rush into starting an affair, you need to think about it and ask yourself about your own personality. What do other people find attractive about you? Remember there are three or more (if you have children or the other person’s married too) people involved here, not just you and your potential new lover. [...]
