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		<title>Comment on I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My Children by Mr. Hat &#38; Clogs</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mr. Hat &#38; Clogs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Feb 2012 04:52:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cheated on him for better genes? So you&#039;re a fucking geneticist who is &quot;positive&quot; that securing the genes of these married men will help you succeed in some evolutionary cycle? You sound very vain Karen. You see yourself staring down at society from your moral pedestal as this highly evolved intellectual cunning entity who is securing herself this ideal utopian society. Let me tell you something Karen:

1. If you&#039;re securing the &quot;genes&quot; of someone for you little ideal children, then why do you only go after &quot;married&quot; men? Why do you single out such a large majority of perfectly capable males? I assure you that these &quot;flawless&quot; genes of yours really won&#039;t matter because there won&#039;t exactly be much of a difference between your husband or these other men. Evolution is an extremely long process which takes hundreds of thousands of generations for any sort of result. The only way to be positive of extracting &quot;positive genes&quot; is by going through extensive health tests, blood tests, urine sampling, and IQ testing. I highly doubt that your suitors are willing to endure this long protracted process to get into your panties nor that your promiscuous self would either. lol

2. So you openly admit that you&#039;re merely with your husband just for the financial and emotional benefit yet you claim to love your spouse? For such a &quot;cunning&quot; intellectual you sure to do have very shallow-minded views on the world. You know it&#039;d be a lot easier to simply say &quot;Why yes, I am a whore and I enjoy screwing around with my husband any way I see fit and I get aroused at the thought and the thrill of not getting caught.&quot; 

3. And finally, after debunking the &quot;complicated&quot; mind of Karen I can safely conclude that she is nothing more than sociopath, egotistical, immature child who wants nothing more than to eat cake and have ice-cream. While you are off in your little self-justified sexual escapades you take no mind of just how shallow you really are from the rest of the world. Just because you found a way to justify something that humanity has already been doing for tens of thousands of years doesn&#039;t qualify you as some interesting intellectual.

Have fun living the delusion Karen. Whatever helps you sleep.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cheated on him for better genes? So you&#8217;re a fucking geneticist who is &#8220;positive&#8221; that securing the genes of these married men will help you succeed in some evolutionary cycle? You sound very vain Karen. You see yourself staring down at society from your moral pedestal as this highly evolved intellectual cunning entity who is securing herself this ideal utopian society. Let me tell you something Karen:</p>
<p>1. If you&#8217;re securing the &#8220;genes&#8221; of someone for you little ideal children, then why do you only go after &#8220;married&#8221; men? Why do you single out such a large majority of perfectly capable males? I assure you that these &#8220;flawless&#8221; genes of yours really won&#8217;t matter because there won&#8217;t exactly be much of a difference between your husband or these other men. Evolution is an extremely long process which takes hundreds of thousands of generations for any sort of result. The only way to be positive of extracting &#8220;positive genes&#8221; is by going through extensive health tests, blood tests, urine sampling, and IQ testing. I highly doubt that your suitors are willing to endure this long protracted process to get into your panties nor that your promiscuous self would either. lol</p>
<p>2. So you openly admit that you&#8217;re merely with your husband just for the financial and emotional benefit yet you claim to love your spouse? For such a &#8220;cunning&#8221; intellectual you sure to do have very shallow-minded views on the world. You know it&#8217;d be a lot easier to simply say &#8220;Why yes, I am a whore and I enjoy screwing around with my husband any way I see fit and I get aroused at the thought and the thrill of not getting caught.&#8221; </p>
<p>3. And finally, after debunking the &#8220;complicated&#8221; mind of Karen I can safely conclude that she is nothing more than sociopath, egotistical, immature child who wants nothing more than to eat cake and have ice-cream. While you are off in your little self-justified sexual escapades you take no mind of just how shallow you really are from the rest of the world. Just because you found a way to justify something that humanity has already been doing for tens of thousands of years doesn&#8217;t qualify you as some interesting intellectual.</p>
<p>Have fun living the delusion Karen. Whatever helps you sleep.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Secret Affair Interviews #11 by YO</title>
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		<dc:creator>YO</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 05:17:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>seriously?????????? why have an affair when you can get a divorce???? its not as hard as it seems....i Mean instead of havig an affair and getting cagt in the end just end the marriage, i mean either way you support ur family and shit so why dont you just divorce, nothing will change instead you can be more comfortable with ur other dude</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>seriously?????????? why have an affair when you can get a divorce???? its not as hard as it seems&#8230;.i Mean instead of havig an affair and getting cagt in the end just end the marriage, i mean either way you support ur family and shit so why dont you just divorce, nothing will change instead you can be more comfortable with ur other dude</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My Children by trish davies</title>
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		<dc:creator>trish davies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 02:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe in Karma. I have taught many children over the years whose parents are physically very healthy and attractive, but who have produced children with profound disabilities.  There is no guarantee of the physical constitution of children.  It may not be apparent in your children but your grandchildren&#039;s well-being may well be something where the karma of the world and there is no denying it, surfaces. One can not be so controlling and expect there to be no repercussions - often to the innocent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe in Karma. I have taught many children over the years whose parents are physically very healthy and attractive, but who have produced children with profound disabilities.  There is no guarantee of the physical constitution of children.  It may not be apparent in your children but your grandchildren&#8217;s well-being may well be something where the karma of the world and there is no denying it, surfaces. One can not be so controlling and expect there to be no repercussions &#8211; often to the innocent.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My Children by Listen to these broads</title>
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		<dc:creator>Listen to these broads</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:08:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Britnie:  Spare us, hon.  You&#039;re clearly not too bright.  Try looking up the definition of &quot;sociopath&quot; before condemning others for properly using it.  Oh, and ... your attempt to justify your own skankitude was quite entertaining.  Deep down, though, in that place where you can&#039;t lie to yourself, you know that both you and Karen are whores.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Britnie:  Spare us, hon.  You&#8217;re clearly not too bright.  Try looking up the definition of &#8220;sociopath&#8221; before condemning others for properly using it.  Oh, and &#8230; your attempt to justify your own skankitude was quite entertaining.  Deep down, though, in that place where you can&#8217;t lie to yourself, you know that both you and Karen are whores.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My Children by Britnie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Britnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 02:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m surprised by all the negative comments. I mean, it&#039;s her life. Does it really bother people so much what other&#039;s do with there personal lives?

If she&#039;s gonna cheat, she&#039;s gonna cheat. Jesus. And I agree with her to an extend. We are not monogamous creatures, as studies state, and it is only natural to seek out men with top genetics as MATES. Not partners, but MATES.
When you look at instinct, what she&#039;s saying isn&#039;t all that absurd.

Also, for everyone stating that she&#039;s something of a &#039;gold-digger,&#039; she stated that her and her husband are emotionally in-tuned and happy. That she doesn&#039;t look for emotional companionship, as she&#039;s happy with her husband.

She has a point in not wanting to have an open-marriage, while it&#039;s a tiny bit selfish.
My mother and father got a divorce, and I chose to live with him. Once he started getting girlfriends, he started ignoring me, texting them all the time, and spending a lot of his money on going out with them. With her, the cheating means &quot;Go have sex, leave right after.&quot; With her husband, who&#039;s more soft-hearted, it would be an emotional, time consuming thing. In other words, it wouldn&#039;t just be the sex. It would be more like companionship. Thus threatening the marriage itself.

Also, with all the sex she&#039;s been having, you&#039;d thing that &#039;one time a month&#039; would slowly become more obvious, as her... &#039;parts&#039; would slowly change. (Yes, having a lot of sex changes the look of the female genitalia. Even the feel.) Is he really all that smart if, not only are there two people working at the cheating game, he can&#039;t notice such simple things? While I agree, intelligence is a gene that should be looked out for more (that&#039;s the first thing I look for in any person) you can&#039;t rule out that this woman herself probably has a high I.Q. Most women who cheat get caught everytime, but she hasn&#039;t. The only person who knows was someone she knew could help her with planning. That&#039;s called strategy, friends. She knows that we are not monogamous by nature, and acts on it. So what?

Oh, and if you guys want to call her a &#039;sociopath,&#039; that&#039;s fine. Sociopaths don&#039;t have emotion. &quot;My husband does a great job at meeting my emotional needs.&quot; Yeah, she&#039;s totally a sociopath, guys.

All-in-all, while I can&#039;t commend her going behind her husband&#039;s back... What she&#039;s doing is pretty natural, whether or not you want to admit it. Truth is, if I get married and my husband doesn&#039;t have great traits (Good health, mental and physical, and high intelligence. Some choice visual traits.) then I will be getting a genetic donation from someone,(Not by cheating, by going to a damn hospital.) as to ensure my great traits are complimented.

In my final word to you all, try not to get so furious over a woman doing what she knows is best for the next generation. We need more people looking at specific traits to cut the amount of stupid in the world. Agree? Good. Bye.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m surprised by all the negative comments. I mean, it&#8217;s her life. Does it really bother people so much what other&#8217;s do with there personal lives?</p>
<p>If she&#8217;s gonna cheat, she&#8217;s gonna cheat. Jesus. And I agree with her to an extend. We are not monogamous creatures, as studies state, and it is only natural to seek out men with top genetics as MATES. Not partners, but MATES.<br />
When you look at instinct, what she&#8217;s saying isn&#8217;t all that absurd.</p>
<p>Also, for everyone stating that she&#8217;s something of a &#8216;gold-digger,&#8217; she stated that her and her husband are emotionally in-tuned and happy. That she doesn&#8217;t look for emotional companionship, as she&#8217;s happy with her husband.</p>
<p>She has a point in not wanting to have an open-marriage, while it&#8217;s a tiny bit selfish.<br />
My mother and father got a divorce, and I chose to live with him. Once he started getting girlfriends, he started ignoring me, texting them all the time, and spending a lot of his money on going out with them. With her, the cheating means &#8220;Go have sex, leave right after.&#8221; With her husband, who&#8217;s more soft-hearted, it would be an emotional, time consuming thing. In other words, it wouldn&#8217;t just be the sex. It would be more like companionship. Thus threatening the marriage itself.</p>
<p>Also, with all the sex she&#8217;s been having, you&#8217;d thing that &#8216;one time a month&#8217; would slowly become more obvious, as her&#8230; &#8216;parts&#8217; would slowly change. (Yes, having a lot of sex changes the look of the female genitalia. Even the feel.) Is he really all that smart if, not only are there two people working at the cheating game, he can&#8217;t notice such simple things? While I agree, intelligence is a gene that should be looked out for more (that&#8217;s the first thing I look for in any person) you can&#8217;t rule out that this woman herself probably has a high I.Q. Most women who cheat get caught everytime, but she hasn&#8217;t. The only person who knows was someone she knew could help her with planning. That&#8217;s called strategy, friends. She knows that we are not monogamous by nature, and acts on it. So what?</p>
<p>Oh, and if you guys want to call her a &#8216;sociopath,&#8217; that&#8217;s fine. Sociopaths don&#8217;t have emotion. &#8220;My husband does a great job at meeting my emotional needs.&#8221; Yeah, she&#8217;s totally a sociopath, guys.</p>
<p>All-in-all, while I can&#8217;t commend her going behind her husband&#8217;s back&#8230; What she&#8217;s doing is pretty natural, whether or not you want to admit it. Truth is, if I get married and my husband doesn&#8217;t have great traits (Good health, mental and physical, and high intelligence. Some choice visual traits.) then I will be getting a genetic donation from someone,(Not by cheating, by going to a damn hospital.) as to ensure my great traits are complimented.</p>
<p>In my final word to you all, try not to get so furious over a woman doing what she knows is best for the next generation. We need more people looking at specific traits to cut the amount of stupid in the world. Agree? Good. Bye.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Beware Of Single Affair Partners by S</title>
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		<dc:creator>S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 02:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a married woman having an EMA with a single man. My affair partner is a sweet man, but he&#039;s a FWB, nothing more, and I&#039;m nothing more than an FWB to him, too. 

In order to successfully manage affairs, all parties need to separate their emotions from their genitals. If you can&#039;t do that, you shouldn&#039;t be in an affair. Period.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a married woman having an EMA with a single man. My affair partner is a sweet man, but he&#8217;s a FWB, nothing more, and I&#8217;m nothing more than an FWB to him, too. </p>
<p>In order to successfully manage affairs, all parties need to separate their emotions from their genitals. If you can&#8217;t do that, you shouldn&#8217;t be in an affair. Period.</p>
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		<title>Comment on This Is My Affair Story by john smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>john smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 21:49:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hmm hope your child is not a girl,for the sins of the parents fall upon the child to the fourth general,you be gone long after and your grand children will be feeling the pain cause by your foolishness,starting with your daughter,that&#039;s just how it is,the world is round and karma is a bitch,so if u want your daughter to have a faithful husband,start being a responsible husband and dad,A guy once came home to wife and said honey we got &quot;IT&quot; in a loud shout,his wife said what we&#039;ve got the &quot;lotto&quot;,he says no honey we&#039;ve got HIV.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hmm hope your child is not a girl,for the sins of the parents fall upon the child to the fourth general,you be gone long after and your grand children will be feeling the pain cause by your foolishness,starting with your daughter,that&#8217;s just how it is,the world is round and karma is a bitch,so if u want your daughter to have a faithful husband,start being a responsible husband and dad,A guy once came home to wife and said honey we got &#8220;IT&#8221; in a loud shout,his wife said what we&#8217;ve got the &#8220;lotto&#8221;,he says no honey we&#8217;ve got HIV.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My Children by Daniel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 17:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hmmm, this is desturbing...fighting revolution. Well, that is why we have morals right?  If you &quot;Karen&quot; want to talk about genetics...your husband may not be muscular, handsome and big in certain departments there is one very important thing you forgotten...intelligents, he appartently has that except for the fact he might already know about your affairs of bettering the world and is in denial.  You did get to know the other guys but how do you know they don&#039;t have some medical issues running in their family such as colon cancer or things like that (cancer is one thing that doesn&#039;t give a rats ass about your history and &quot;dominate gene&quot; health).  Not to say your kids are not smart and your husband personality my pass on to them but intelligents only goes so far.  Besides, your husband won&#039;t be the only person hurt if he finds out...you children will be crushed because they won&#039;t look at the dominate gene excuse like you do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmmm, this is desturbing&#8230;fighting revolution. Well, that is why we have morals right?  If you &#8220;Karen&#8221; want to talk about genetics&#8230;your husband may not be muscular, handsome and big in certain departments there is one very important thing you forgotten&#8230;intelligents, he appartently has that except for the fact he might already know about your affairs of bettering the world and is in denial.  You did get to know the other guys but how do you know they don&#8217;t have some medical issues running in their family such as colon cancer or things like that (cancer is one thing that doesn&#8217;t give a rats ass about your history and &#8220;dominate gene&#8221; health).  Not to say your kids are not smart and your husband personality my pass on to them but intelligents only goes so far.  Besides, your husband won&#8217;t be the only person hurt if he finds out&#8230;you children will be crushed because they won&#8217;t look at the dominate gene excuse like you do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I Cheated On My Husband To Secure Better Genes For My Children by Jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 05:09:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s clear that Karen was very lucky marrying a guy who&#039;s outside her general ballpark. I&#039;m thinking her studs are from her old trailer park. You have no self-respect Karen, you are thoroughly selfish and a fraud - and your husband is sleeping with the enemy.

Watch the karma Karen, because like death - you can&#039;t avoid it. Maybe then you&#039;ll rethink your &quot;proud as punch&quot; attitude you thoroughly loathsome woman!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s clear that Karen was very lucky marrying a guy who&#8217;s outside her general ballpark. I&#8217;m thinking her studs are from her old trailer park. You have no self-respect Karen, you are thoroughly selfish and a fraud &#8211; and your husband is sleeping with the enemy.</p>
<p>Watch the karma Karen, because like death &#8211; you can&#8217;t avoid it. Maybe then you&#8217;ll rethink your &#8220;proud as punch&#8221; attitude you thoroughly loathsome woman!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Beware Of Single Affair Partners by avery</title>
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		<dc:creator>avery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 13:59:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a married woman with 2 children and have been involved in an affair for nearly 4 years now with a single man...we dated a bit in high school and college.  I have fallen in love with this single man and am separated from my husband.  My affair says he wants to marry me and be part of my life and my children&#039;s but lives 10 hours away.  He doesn travel to see me but of course hasn&#039;t met my children and will not until I am divorced.  Is there any hope for my happiness?  I know what I have done is horrible but we all make mistakes.  I married too young but have no regrets because my children are my life but now have found someone who really stimulates me mentally, physically and emotionally.  I do worry because he is single with no children..is this what he really wants or does he want to continue our affair?  I am so confused!  My children are adjusting well to my husband and I being separated which makes me feel somewhere more at ease.  Will he ever trust me and commit to me?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a married woman with 2 children and have been involved in an affair for nearly 4 years now with a single man&#8230;we dated a bit in high school and college.  I have fallen in love with this single man and am separated from my husband.  My affair says he wants to marry me and be part of my life and my children&#8217;s but lives 10 hours away.  He doesn travel to see me but of course hasn&#8217;t met my children and will not until I am divorced.  Is there any hope for my happiness?  I know what I have done is horrible but we all make mistakes.  I married too young but have no regrets because my children are my life but now have found someone who really stimulates me mentally, physically and emotionally.  I do worry because he is single with no children..is this what he really wants or does he want to continue our affair?  I am so confused!  My children are adjusting well to my husband and I being separated which makes me feel somewhere more at ease.  Will he ever trust me and commit to me?</p>
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