I am a legal secretary. I am latina and happily married with two kids. One of the female partners had been playfully pursuing me for over 6mo. I just played it off being respectful but clearly showing no interest. I do not really know her that well so it was awkward but working in a law firm, i have learned to brush things off. Every year the firm has a working retreat to palm springs. Well, on one of the nights, we were out having dinner and cocktails and this attorney cornered me and we talked for over one hour. she was right next to me and i felt awkward but her plan of having me and alcohol together was working. She talked me into going to her suite at the resort saying her friends were going to be there partying. I said what the hell and we walked the short walk back to her large suite. when we arrived, i realized we were it and there would be no one else. next thing i know, her hands are around my waist, he was behind me and started kissing my neck and moving her hands up my thighs and over my butt. i was wearing a little black dress and heels and next thing i know, the dress is on the floor and i am on her bed in just my panties and heels. well, she had her way with me and i really did not fight back. I have been with her 3 times and must say i find myself too involved to stop..i am 28 she is 37 and both of us are in good shape. i have never had the experiences i do with her. I feel terrible but cant seem to break away...
Affair at work
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Posted 7 months ago #
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WOW!@! This reads like a fantasy many of us have had. Welcome to the world of double lives. Most of us here are trying to figure out the ins and outs of having a secret lover of the opposite sex but there are probably a few that have been in your shoes and can help. I have never been with another woman but have had the fantasy. It sounds like she is an excellent seductress and very manipulative. I'm not sure if you just wanted to share the expereince with someone and that is why you are here or if you really want advice on how to break it off.
You didn't give much information about her, is she married, single, is she bi or lesbian? Do you feel terrible because it is another woman or because you feel guilty about your husband? Do you really want to break it off or do you just want the guilt to go away? We all have dealt or are dealing with the guilt when there is a spouse invovled and it can be hell to live with.
However you need to use this site, there will be someone out there that can help.Posted 6 months ago # -
legalfeline - wow, yes, tell us more, we're all waiting! ;-) very hot post, I must say. Anyhow, this is an interesting question....does this constitute an affair? most husbands would probably not think so, in fact they would want to join in or at least watch. What if our husbands experimented with another man - how would us ladies feel about that? most of us can't see that happening, of course, but two women together is much more accepted in our society. Thinking that through, I wouldn't really think he was having an affair on me unless they crossed the emotional line, I would chalk it up to experimentation.
Anyhow, I would also like to hear why you are feeling guilty.
Posted 6 months ago # -
Legalfeline, I have been with OM for almost 9 years and while I do love him very much I have actually also had purely sexual fantasies about a woman I have known for years. Yes, purplelily - its true :-) So legal, what happened to you would be something welcome to me - I think I'm too scared to make the first move and she has no idea I'm interested in her that way. I did have a fling with a woman many years ago - at least 12 years ago - and it was pretty intense!! In my eyes, it may consitute an affair but what the hell if it makes you feel good. Do you feel terrible cause you feel that you are cheating or because it is with another woman? Have you ever been with another woman? Even as a little experiment? Let us know.
Posted 6 months ago # -
memories - you made me smile with that one! I've had similar desires, I am pretty much open to all things sexual...
Which leads to me an observation - the women out here seem to be very sexually open and enjoy fantasizing and exploring. Perhaps this is one of the main reasons we strayed in the first place. Some of the things i do with my guy i would never do with my hb, he just doesn't turn me on that way.
Posted 6 months ago # -
Im soooo glad this topic came up! I too have this fantasy a lot. I've been with a woman before.. and have kissed tons of women. I have actually been trying to arrange a 3some with my OM, but its been difficult. One of the women who is game is in love with me... so Im hesitant to let her in. Im afraid she will get a little crazy. I tried Ashley Madison and actually found someone, but I started to feel guilty (I posted something on guilt a while ago). The woman I found on AM was more interested in just me than a 3some... I think thats why I felt guilty. I felt a little "gay".. not that there is anything wrong with that, Im just not. :) anyway.. I fantasize about women a lot.... more so than my OM. I know fantasy is better than reality in most cases, but it sure is a lot of fun to think about!
Posted 6 months ago # -
Legal, if you are out there, would you feel comfortable providing an update on your situation - because of my possible interest in something similar I cannot help but wonder how that has worked out for you before I decide if I want to make a try towards this person of interest.
Posted 6 months ago # -
I am DYING to know more too!!!!!
Posted 6 months ago #
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